Letters

In this section we will post a sample of the e-mails received. Comments about G.I. Joe and Lillie, as well as Joseph's other writing, is very much appreciated at josephsbonsall.com. Send your note to JosephSBonsall@aol.com.

The White House
Washington

Dear Joe,

Thank you for the copy of G.I. Joe and Lillie. Laura and I appreciate your
thinking of us. We love the forward.

We hope all is well with you and Mary.

Best Regards

George W. Bush

Dear Joe,

I Love GI Joe and Lillie, and I loved the little anecdote about Lillie
acquiring the home with the assistance of Mr. Gruenbaum. That was very touching.

Warm regards, and thanks for sharing this wonderful book.

George Bush

Hi Joe,

By now I am sure you have received hundreds of e-mails telling you how
fabulous your books are! Bill and I read "An Inconvenient Christmas" together on
Friday night and it really was so well written...we truly enjoyed it! I will
definitely be getting more copies for my kidlets...perhaps instead of reading
"The Night Before Christmas" to their babies, they will start a new tradition,
with the help of "The Winstead Family".

I received my copy of The American Journey last night after work, so all I
had the chance to do was leaf through the pages and mostly check out all those
pictures!!!! I LOVED every one of them!!! However, I did read the dedication
to all of your wives and I'm not sure I can express how beautiful I thought
it was. Those words just tugged at these old heart strings and literally
brought tears to my eyes. These "special ladies" are gifts from the Lord above and
your Dedication showed how cherished they are to all of you! I can't wait to
read the "whole book" and hopefully next year at Open House you'll be able to
autograph it for me!!

See you on Friday night.....

God Bless you....

Love,

Marie

Dear Joe,

I was flipping the channels on the T.V. a few months ago when I saw the Oak
Ridge Boys on a Feed the Children Drive. I stopped because I love the group,
but also because of the song you were singing "G.I. Joe and Lillie." I just
cried and cried. You see, I was waiting for my own "handsome soldier" to return
from Iraq at the time. It was such a strong connection for me. I donated to
the drive and received "Colors" and the book about your parents. I played
"G.I. Joe and Lillie" over and over again, while I cried. It was a difficult
time, but it really helped get a lot of emotions out that needed to come out.
Now we are looking at my husband having to go back over to Iraq for another
year soon, and I do know that the song will help me out when I need it. Thank
you so much for writing the song and book and it's wonderful you had such love
growing up. Thank you, too, for the much needed support of our soldiers and
us, the families of the troops. It seems like the rest of America has gone back
to business as usual and we are still left with the war to face. You'll
never know much your support means.

Mrs. E. H. ... wife of a brave and handsome soldier

Joey,

This past April we attended your concert at Central Wesleyan Church in
Holland, MI. We were with our

son-in-law's parents. After the concert she gave me the book "GI Joe and
Lillie". Told me I would love the book.

I DID ! ! !

My wife and I were in Washington D.C. this past week. We went to
Arlington Cemetery and found your mom and dad's grave stones. I was deeply
moved--more than I had anticipated I would be. I took pictures of both sides of the
stone. Our friends told me to stand or kneel by the stone and they would take
my picture but I told them I didn't feel like I could do that. I have spent
my two years in the Army back in the late '50s. Fortunately I didn't have to
serve in combat, although it does make me feel a little like I didn't fully
serve my country. Anyway, I was so moved by standing by HEROES that I knew, even
if it was only through a book, I could not share the same picture with them.
Thanks for a great book. I will never forget being there at the gravesites.
Your mom definitely was quite a lady--oh how this world needs more like
her.

E. D.

The book is amazing !!! I am a former Marine and have been married for 15
yrs with 3 children. My 7 year old asked me what was wrong when I was reading
your book. (yup , you made this 40 year old devil dog shed a tear) Other than
when I cried with my father when my grandfather passed away , my wife and
children had never seen me shed a tear. This is a GREAT account of the love you
had with your parents. I wish all had that kind of love and value system. If
that were so , the world would be a better place.

Keep up the good work. I realize nobody can change the whole world , but you
have made my part of it a little brighter.

God Bless
R. D. Jr.

Dear Mr. Bonsall,

My name is J. W., my friends call me J.D. I would like to begin
by thanking you dearly for sharing the life story of your parents. "Thank
You". My father sent me the book, for he highly recommended it. Though I'm not
a heavy reader, my dad said your book was "guaranteed".

Also the book made me realize how much I love and miss my family. I
have a wife and two girls. Ages 2 and 3. I haven't seen them in about 3 months
now, and we're expecting another 4-6 months before I ever will. With a 12
month deployment to Iraq, your book is the warmth I needed to keep me going. If
you have anymore recommendations, I would love to hear about them. For now I
think I will read this one again. Again, thank you very much.

SGT. W.

Dear Joe,

I know you probably don't remember me, but my wife, Jackie, and I met you
backstage at the Grand Palace on Wednesday afternoon, May 19th. If you'll
recall, Mike Campbell and I were high school classmates and he made it possible for
us to meet you, Duane, William and Richard. We both want to thank you for
being so gracious in meeting us.

We were enroute back to our home in Odessa, Texas from an Air Force reunion
in Lexington, Kentucky. The reunion I attended was one that 4 of us fellows
worked on for quite a while. We had only made contact about a year earlier.
None of us had seen each other in over 32 years. To say that it was emotional
is an understatement. Never in my life have I felt that sort of closeness. I
think when people share a time of their lives together in the service of their
country, those years are forever etched in their minds. When I saw my
roommate of 32 years ago, I just wept. Over 20 of our brothers made the reunion and
they came in from all over the country. It was a great success.

I have just finished your book, "G.I. Joe and Lillie". Joe, you have done
the world a favor by writing it. I lost my parents four months apart in 1994.
They had shared 52 years together. As you know, there is nothing to compare
to losing your parents. I have tried my best to turn a bad thing into a good
thing. I used to call my parents whenever I needed some advice. Now, of
course, I can't do that. However, I always feel their presence and can visualize
my father standing at my shoulder watching me. He guides me to this day. I
think of my parents daily and it helps me in my life.

You've not only done the world a favor in writing the book, you've done
yourself one too. Putting it down on paper and sharing it with others is the
greatest thing you could have done to honor your parents. You love them deeply and
it shows. I know they are watching over you and Nancy.

Thank you for your support of the military. And thank you for your support
of our President and his family. George W. probably doesn't remember it, but I
used to eat breakfast across from him in a cafeteria in Midland, Texas when
he was dating Laura. He's a swell guy and his heart is in the right place.

I wish you all the luck in the world and continued success. Give our best to
the guys.

Take care,
M. & J. K.
Odessa, Texas
P.S. Take care of Mikey C. We're kinda fond of him.

Subject: Fwd: G.I. Joes's & Lillie's Son Does Excellent Grief Work

Dear Mr. Bonsall,

Last night, 21 May 2004, my husband George and I attended with our best friend, Fr. F. L., the Oak Ridge Boys concert at Chip-In's Island Resort & Casino in Escanaba, Michigan. We were fortunate enough to be in the front row right in front of you.

Several months ago, on PBS I watched you perform your tribute to your parents. To say the least, more than a few tears were shed. I knew that night, I would read G.I. Joe & Lillie. Last night, after the concert, of course I picked up a copy. I hadn't intended to read the entire book last night, however at 1:30 A.M., I read the last page.

Mr. Bonsall I am a grief counselor and health educator. Your book is exactually what I try to get people to write about while they are in the midst of the grieving process. Your writing, your song conveys so perfectly the validation of the love between your parents and the love between you and them. Which never ends - - not even death can take that away. Greif is only love with a broken heart. Not something to be feared or to run away from.

Anyway, to make this long email shorter; Mr. Bonsall in my humble opionion, I'm sure there is a grief book in your heart and head just waiting to be written. In any case, your book in going to my office this week to be placed with my other grief material, to show to my clients what good writing and journaling can do for moving through their grief process.

Thank you for sharing your mom and dad with all of us. You'll never know all the lives you have touched and changed.

May God continue to bless you, your family and the Oak Ridge Boys.

I'll be waiting for your next book.

Sincerely,
S. H. M.
Gladstone, Michiggan

P.S.
I was just remembering, my last fan letter was sent to Elvis in 1962 - -what a hoot, huh?

I just finished your book about your parents and wanted you to know that I
found it to be one of the most inspirational books I have read in a long
time. I think this book should be mandatory reading for any young couple
about to be married....it shows what true love really is and that no matter
what you stand by each other. My husband and I will be married 24 years this
September...I am 48 and he is 56...Four years ago he had a stroke and is no
longer able to work or provide as a man likes to do...but I would never leave
him....I love him with my whole being...and I understand the nightmares that
your mother helped your father through....My husband spent 18 months in the
jungles of Viet Nam as a member of a search and destroy team...He still has
nightmares after leaving there in 1967. Your mother was a remarkable woman
and your father was truly an American Hero....

We have been Oak Ridge Boys fans since we were first together and we truly
enjoy your music...I wish we could have seen your concert in Des Moines, Iowa
last March, but unfortunately money was tight...I have promised my husband
and myself that we will be at the Christmas concert you are going to do in Des
Moines, Iowa at the Civic Center in Christmas of 2005.

God be with you.....L. S.

I am writing to you on behalf of my Mother, M. (E.) D. Recently
she bought your book G. I. Joe and Lillie and the first thing she noticed was
that Lillie's basic training photo looked exactly like her own. The date
confirms that indeed your Mother and mine were in basic training together.

My Mom is from Athens, Alabama. After basic training she served in the Motor
Pool at Memphis, TN.

Today (26-March) is my Mom's 82nd birthday. She is a remarkable woman. She
still works at a paying job about 4 hours a day. My Dad passed away in 1988.
She enjoys working and sees no reason to quit. My husband is active duty in
the Coast Guard and we are staioned in Virginia. When she wants to come see
us (and her only grandsons) she gets in her van and drives out here.
Thankfully my older sister and her husband live near my Mother.

I guess mainly my Mom just wanted you to know that she has so enjoyed reading
your book. She said she could only get through a few pages each time as she
would be crying and it would get too difficult to read through the tears. I
have not read the book yet, but I plan to and look forward to it.

Thank you for taking the time to read this and thank you for the many hours
of enjoyment brought by your music (and now your book) over the years.

Dear Joseph,

My name is J. D. and reside, in retirement, in Colorado Springs,
Colorado after spending 22 years in the United States Air Force and 20
years with our Department of State, Foreign Service Operations.

Joey, I just now tearfully finished reading your book "G.I. Joe & Lilly"
and the only book, that I can recently recall, ever reading straight
through without placing it aside for another day to finish and while
continuously playing your CD "Colors".

You and your moving story has brought back so many memories of
my youth; from being born in North Philly (Kensington), relocating to
Allegheny, and then finally to Wissioming (the district just above Frankford).
While reading I would close my eyes and recall streets named Trenton,
Horrocks, Orthodox, 5th, Wakeling, Jasper, Frankford, and Torresdale.

I vividly recall riding the "El", from Bridge Street to Torresdale Avenue
on my way to Northeast Catholic High School while my first love
attended Frankford High School; our football rival during our annual
Thanksgiving Day grudge game. She a Cheerleader for the "Blue and

Gold" and I a Cheerleader for the "Red and White".

To say I can relate to G.I. Joe & Lilly is an understatement for
Chapter after Chapter I found myself remembering my upbringing
and walking and working in the familiar streets of North Philly.

I am also a Vietnam veteran, twice over, and understand your Father's
reluctance to speak about his combat experiences but you were extremely
fortunate, to say the least, to piece together his horrific experiences
during
WWII mostly through your Beloved Mother's (Lilly) beautiful and devoted
love for G.I. Joe.
While with the Department of State and when assigned to the American
Consulate in Sydney, Australia I was honored to assist in the pre-planning
of the Bushes 1991 presidential visit just prior to being transferred to
Washington, D.C.

Joey, while at State I lived in Arlington, Virginia and would visit Arlington
National
Cemetery, mainly on the weekends, and would use the Fort Myers' back gate,
located just behind the main chapel, to enter and exit. Since the State
Department
is located just a block away from the Vietnam Memorial, I would often spend
my lunch break joining the many visitors in awe and bewilderment over the
55,000
names of our veterans lost in a war that most Americans and politicians
turned their back on.

I could go on and on, Joey, but just want you to know that you have touched
me by bringing to mind my beautiful but meager beginnings and where I am
today only because of a beautiful Mother named Catherine; a woman much
like Lilly in her faith for God and Country.
You could do me another favor, Joey, if you could find it in your heart to
autograph
me a copy of your book "G.I. Joe and Lilly" to be placed in my personal
library which
will be held in gratitude and reverence from one Philly guy to another and I
would feel
obligated to remit the cost of the book, plus handling and mailing charges
whatever
they may be.
I will keep a look out for a possible "Oak Ridge Boys" concert in the Denver,
Colorado
area and you can be assured that I will be in the audience begging you to
sing the song you wrote for your Mom and Dad; "G.I. Joe & Lilly".
God Bless You Always;

J. J. D.

Joe, I am a veteran New Orleans firefighter and I have just finished reading
your book while on duty. Thankfully I got to finish it without interruption.
My wife gave it to me for my birthday after I had seen the TV program. I am a
Vietnam veteran, US Army and Desert Storm veteran, USAFR and am active in a
POW-MIA orginization that has ridden to The Wall the past two years and will do
so again this May. While there I will find my way to Eisenhower and York to pay
my respects. Thank you for a wonderful book and beautyful rendition of the
song. I watch it every chance I get. Maybe someday should our paths cross you'll
autograph my book. God Bless

Hey,
I just finished reading your book GI Joe And Lillie.
I want to let you know that I have not read many novels that really had such
an impact on my heart. I am 39 and just had my nephew go into the Marines and
just finish boot camp and basic training in SC and NC he is now in Fl. doing
his book work and more training. Anyway I am from a small county in North
Carolina and was surprised to read that your mother also came from N. C. I live in
Roxboro about an hour from Raleigh. I really enjoyed read the book it took me
about five days to read because of working ten hours a day. Before I could
finish the last pages I was crying so hard for it touched me so.
I lost my father when I was twelve and my mother when I was turned
twenty-three. Losing both of them hurt me so for my father was only 48 and ma was 52.
There is not a day goes by that I don't think of them and they have been gone
since 1978 and 1987.
I really miss them.
I will end this by letting you know that I am grateful that you shared your
story of such love and devotion with us all.
Pamela

Hi Joe, I"ve seen you so many times I feel that I know you. I enjoyed your
book very much. It brought back a lot of memories. My Dad and four older
brothers all joined the Navy in 1942 when i was 3 years old. They left my Mother at
home with us five younger kids and didn:t come home until 1945. My oldest son
is now in Iraq with operation enduring freedom. He should be home by July. We
are coming to Cedar Falls to your concert March 14 and I was wondering if you
would sign my book for me? WE always enjoy your shows.

Dear Joe,

In 1999 I worked as a registrar at Phoenixville Hospital in Phoenixville, PA.
One day a patient named Lillie Bonsall came into my cubicle to register for
a medical test. I noticed right away that she had on an Oak Ridge Boys shirt.
I asked her if she was a fan and she smiled a BIG smile, pointed to your
picture on the shirt and said this is my son.

She proceeded to tell me how proud she was of you and all that you had
accomplished in your life. She told about the love song that had been written about
her husband and her, which I just came to find out recently was GI Joe and
Lillie.

She went on to say that when the Oak Ridge Boys came to Lancaster, PA you
would charter buses for the veterans at the veterans home to come to your
concert. That made me smile.

Today I will be at your 3:00 concert in Lancaster, PA in the 1st row in the
balcony, seat 432. I know your music will make my heart smile, just as I hope
this story I shared about your mom with you will make your heart smile.

God bless you,

J. L.

Hi Joseph,
I just finished reading your book, which I cried through the last
half. It was wonderful. My husband was watching a program about the
Oakridge Boys around Christmas. They were selling your Christmas CD
and your book GI Joe & Lillie. When my husband heard about the book he
could not help buying the book. He actually bought it for me. (I am
his wife) It was a story very similar to my parents story. (which I am
sure there are a lot of similar stories from people our age)
You see my father just passed away Dec. 2002 and we buried him at
Arlington in March 2003. I wish I could have read Friend, Good Night by
Steven Robinson before the funeral. My dad was in World War II and had
many surgeries afterward. My mom was an Army/Red Cross nurse. My dad
never talked about his experience except one time to me when I was home
on a college break. It was a remarkable story. Any way I am going to
have my mom and sisters read your book! And the next time we visit my
dads grave at Arlington I am going to see if I can find your parents
grave sites.
I was surprised when I saw the picture of your family with Nana
Gertrude because she looked so very much like my grandmother whom we
called Nana.
I don't want to ramble on I just want to thank you for writing such a
wonderful book.
Sincerely Yours, A. K.

Hello;

My name is J. R. D. and I just read your book about the subject

above. I will be 82 years of age in September and am a World War 11 veteran,

having served with the 1st Engineer Special Brigade attached to the 4th

Division during the invasion of Normandy. Our landing Zone was susposed to

be Uncle Red on Utah Beach. After a little confusion we made it ashore. In

reading the book, it brought back a flood of emotions and memories. In 2002,

I took my son to visit all the beaches. While visiting Utah Beach, The Mayor

of Saint Marie Du Mont and manager of the museum on the beach gave me a

medallion from the people of his village (town). Our monument of the Brigade

stand tall on the beach. My son brought two bottles of sand from Utah Beach

home and put it in small bottles to give to those from our unit who are

left. We meet in September after labor day for little get to-gether. Only

about 10 or 12 of us remain that are able to meet. While in Normandy, I took

him to the American Cemetery near Omaho Beach where 9300 hero's are buried.

I wanted him to witness only a small part of what war can do to those who

participate in the defense of our country and freedom. Sometimes the current

generation forgets the hardships. We who are left don't seek praise for

what we did. We only want them to search the history of our country. Maybe

in time , there will be peace in the world. With God's help, this may

accomplished. I plan to take my wife to Washington in May to witness the

dedication of the WW 11 memorial. It will probably be my last visit to the

sacred grounds of remembrance of all who have gone on before. This mesage

is in appreciation for the opportunity to read your book. I truly enjoyed

it. Thanks again, and I wish you and your well.

J. R. D., Chillicothe, Ohio

Dear Joseph S. Bonsall........One day, several months ago, I was in the BX at
Hill AFB, UT with my mother and a table was set up in the isle with a few
patriotic things on it for sale.......one was a stack of your book. The cover
looked interesting to me since I love the U.S. Army and history.....and also
because my parents were from the same era. I debated whether or not to spend the
money on it and eventually did. I took the book home with all intentions of
reading it then and there but....as many others.....it got laid to the side.
But day before yesterday, I picked it up and started reading it. I finished
it last night and all I could do was sit and cry and hold on to the book as
though it would help with the grieving I was feeling. Toward the end, you told
us we would love your Mom.....and you know what....I did and I do and I will
never forget her or your father.

How can I ever thank you for sharing this wonderful story. I could relate so
much to it. My father served in World War II and in the Korean War. He
retired from the service in 1964. He loved his country all of his life. He was
an honorable man, loved by all who know him and his word was as good as gold.
As with your father, he would never talk about the war....no matter how much I
asked. There were times when I thought he was irritated at me for wanting to
know. He held it inside of himself as though he were protecting something
sacred.......and I now know it was sacred. He died a few weeks after his 80th
birthday and the honor guard was there and did all they do at burials of these
wonderful people. My Dad would have wanted it no other way.......except to
maybe be buried at Arlington.

Thank you again......I love you so much for this wonderful gift and I am now
on my way to Media Play to see if I can by your Colors CD and hear the song GI
Joe and Lillie. Thank you again and also for all you wonderful music which
in itself has always touched my heart. You are a wonderful writer with a great
gift to express exactly what most wish could be put into words..........Your
fan from Utah.....A. K.

Joe:
Before Christmas I donated some money to "Feed the Children" and they sent me
a couple of copies of your book about your Mom and Dad. My wife read it few
days ago and I opened it up this morning and read it cover-to-cover today (it
was minus 21F this morning and only warmed to minus 10F by evening so was a
good day to sit near the fire and read, and cry, by the way). I served in the
US Army in the Fifties, in France, in peace time, visited Normandy and Omaha
and Utah Beaches, the many Allied Cemeteries in which, as your Father said, "all
of the Hero's were buried", and mourned at all of our boys lives that were
lost. My Father served with the US Army in WWI in France and I remember one
time when we were in St. Louis at one of our Soft Drink Conventions (you see, we
were Royal Crown Bottlers as were Lillie's brothers), and I came to my
Father's room to get him to go down for the evenings banquet, and he was watching a
movie about World War I and was sitting there crying, really
sobbing. I tried to comfort him and wondered why he would be crying about
it...... Well, today while reading your story, I was crying. As we age, we
become much more sentimental, I have found. Now that I am sixty-six (about the
age he was back in St. Louis) I can understand the sadness that war brings on
us.

We saw The Oaks in Branson a few years ago and enjoyed your show immensely!
Never realized your talent as a writer. Enjoyed "G.I. Joe and Lillie" very
much; I am happy that you told this wonderful story. Please take real pride in
the fact that you did this service to not only your parents, but all of the
men and women who have defended our country in the many wars our nation has
fought!!!! Thank you!

A. Z.

Dear Mr. Bonsall,
My name is V. C. and I am from a small town near
Jackson, TN. It is 1:15 AM in my small town and I am awake only to finish reading GI
Joe and Lillie. I did finish it about ten minutes ago and the only thing I
can say is outstanding. This is the best book I have ever read. I cried and it
is just not like me to cry while reading a book. I love my country, and I love
our brave warriors. I have never read or seen any story about one of our
nation's heroes that was portrayed with more love and respect than this one. I
think it is safe to say you have accomplished your goal of honoring your father
and mother. This book will be talked about for years to come. I know that if I
ever have a daughter, I am going to make sure she reads this book before she is
an adult. This is the ultimate true love story. I can't imagine the emotions
you must have gone through writing it but I thank you because it has truly
touched my heart.God Bless You and may you have a very Merry
Christmas!

Sincerely,

V. C.

My son just returned from Iraq. I know he is having some major problems
about things he saw and things he did. He doesn't talk about his experiences at
all. After reading your book "G.I. Joe and Lillie" I understand a little
better. Your book was so wonderful I couldn't wait to tell the rest of my family
and friends about it.
When I first started reading it, I could only read about 5-7 pages before
breaking down and crying for awhile. Then it got to the point that I could not
put it down.
Thank you so much for writing the book and sharing with everyone the love
that your parents had for each other and the strong faith of your mother.
Thank you again for such a wonderful book.
May God bless you and your family.
M. D.

Read your book in one night. I was touched very deeply and found myself in
the story. I will see you in person at the Crazy Horse Club in Irvine Ca. on
Sunday, March 7th. I always enjoyed the Oak Ridge Boys music and look forward to
seeing and hearing you all in person.
I have been a Patriot
all my life, no one loves this wonderful USA more than I except you guys. I
only wish that I could have met your Mom and Dad, I would have said to them
Thank You for taking care of my Country when I was a little boy and give them a
big hug. My Father worked in the Steel Mills on the South Side of Chicago
during WW2. The Army would not take him because he held a defense job. Twice he
went to the US Army recruiting office drunk raising hell trying to join and fight
for his Country and twice he was told to go home and work in the steel mill
to make the steel to make guns and tanks for our boys, so he did. My Mother
went to work also in the steel mill where my Father worked and became a Rosy the
Riveter girl. The four of us kids where watched by neighbors at home.
Reading this story of
your Mom and Dad reminded me how my Father cried after the War when his
Buddies where killed or badly wounded. How he wished he could have been on that
beach in France with your Dad. Thank God for these Men who stood up for America
and Women who rolled up there sleeves and took care of there children and homes
and went to work in defense plants to support our troops. I will cherish the
memories that I have of those days long ago.
I served my Country
for 24 years in the United States Marine Corp. And I would stand for America
again when she needs me. Thank you. You need not respond because I know your
busy, but remember I will be in the audience to see you all on Sunday, March
7th, and I want to hear it loud and clear for all the GI Joe's and Lillie's. If
I don't you will hear me screaming. Good Luck, God Bless you all. Gy. Sgt.
G. J. T. USMCR Ret.

Dear Joe,

I just wanted to let you know my husband and I just finished G. I. Joe &
Lillie. I have never had a book, other than the Bible, have such a strong
immediate effect on me. We cried and laughed and were truly amazed by your parents.
What a testament to the human spirit and a deep abiding faith. They were both
incredible people. My husband and I are both Vietnam Vets, he was in country,
while I was stateside. He doesn't talk about Vietnam, but he told me he could
relate to G. I. Joe in many instances.

Their story, like many others, needed to be told. We thank you for sharing it
with us. We will pass our book around to other members of our American Legion
Post.

Again, thank you for a wonderful reminder of a truly GREAT GENERATION. God
Bless You and Yours.

M.(USMC) & S. J.(WAC)

Chandler, AZ

Mr. Bonsall,

Picked up your book when I was in Branson for Veteran's Week but didn't get a
chance to read it until after the holidays were over.

What a great story - a beguiling tribute to your parents. It would be the
magnificent love story of the century were it not for the similarities with other
loving couples. And yet, it is truly a beautiful tale of what Faith, Hope
and Love bring to a marriage, family trials and tribulation, and devotion to
each other. That marvelous bond of love and strength, the fiber of fear and
weakness was the glue that used to hold American families together. How sad that
we've lost some of the wonderment. Really enjoyed you sharing your parents with
the world.

Also enjoyed the performance at the Tony Orlando tribute to Veterans and the
song you wrote and sang of "GI Joe & Lillie" was beautiful.

May God Bless you and your family and continue to bless you with great talent.

Sincerely,

J. A. S., Col (Ret)

USAF (NC)

Mr. Joseph Bonsall,

I commend you and thank you for writing GI Joe & Lillie. To me it is very
moving. This personal history reflects not only the dedication and sacrifice
of your parents, but in my mind reflects the untold stories for an untold
number of veterans and their families.

Yesterday, as I visited the Southeastern Veterans Center, I told the
residents of this book and how it brings to light the sacrifices veterans and
their families make for a lifetime for this country. Several of the residents came
to me thanking me, and really you, for reminding them of Joe and Lillie. They
are fondly remembered at the Southeastern Veterans Home by the residents and
staff.

As the Deputy Adjutant General for Veterans' Affairs I intend to give a
copy of your book to the leadership of the General Assembly committees on
Emergency Preparedness and Veterans Affairs (who oversee or operations) so they can
be as touched and inspired as I am.

In October my wife I attended a meeting of all the state Veterans Affairs
directors in New Orleans. At a dinner the Georgia director played your song
to all. I can tell you that it struck the hearts of all who attended. Veterans
and their families of all eras appreciate your honoring your parents. They
were very special people.

If at all possible I would like to have your autograph one of these
copies. If you have a book signing in Pennsylvania please let me know.

Again, thank you for telling the story of your parents to us all.

C. B. H.

Deputy Adjutant General for Veterans' Affairs

Dear Joey

I received your book, G. I. JOE & LILLIE, this morning and finished it this
afternoon.
I was spell bound by it. I was only 7 years younger than your dad and missed
WWII by a little, but saw lots of Air Combat in Vietnam. I earned two
Distinguished Flying Crosses and several Air Medals and saw 3 of my comrades shot
down and killed.
I was up close and personal to the events and they made lasting impressions
on me.

I must say that during the last quarter of your book I was misty eyed and
even a few tears came down my cheeks.

I have been a big fan of Gospel Music and the Oak Ridge Boys.

Keep up the good work and congratulations on a very dynamic book about people
of my generation.

Sincerely,

Colonel J. C. B., PhD, USAF(Ret)

Mr. Bonsall,
I just finished reading your book G.I. Joe and Lillie and I was compelled
to write and say thanks. What an amazing and touching read! I'm sure you hear
this from alot of folks, but I was moved to tears; not only at the sacrifice
and dedication these two amazing veterans provided to our country, but to the
wonderful faith in God that was so well displayed and conveyed.
My wife and I are also serving and I'm thankful that people in the public
eye like yourself have the courage to publicly acknowledge their thanks for
those who serve and their faith in God. Too many it seems, try and hide that
away, so THANK YOU!
I'm sending this book to my wife who is currently deployed "over there"
(she was also deployed to Afghanistan right after the initial War on Terrorisim
began) and we've had to spend a lot of time apart over the years. We're lucky,
as it's both of our professions (much like your parents) and we know and
accept the consequences of our line of work. Also, I too believe in the cros
sroads you spoke of (though I had never though of it in those terms, but very aptly
named) and belive that God brough her and I together. I won't bore you with
the details, but we have always told each other during the tough times that it
was God's will we were put together, and who are we to question him?
Sorry this is so long, I really just wanted to say thanks for sharing your
parents story. BTW, I had tried to see you when you were here at Hill AFB a
few months ago, but couldn't break away. Had I had read this book before then,
I would have done everything possible to be there to personally thank you
and have it signed. We do have a signed copy of Molly the cat BTW!
Again, Thank You!

R. R., SMSgt, USAF
Hill AFB UT

P. R., Capt, USAF
Wyoming ANG

Dear Mr. Bonsall,

As I sat here just a few days before Christmas, I felt compelled
to write to thank you for ?G I Joe and Lillie?. While watching television
recently, I happened upon a segment of ?Feed The Children?, where you and the
Oak Ridge Boys group were singing that song. I could not rest until I
researched the song and found the connection between you and the South Eastern
Pennsylvania Veterans Home in Spring City, PA. Not only do I want to thank you for
such beautiful praise for your parents, but also for what it means to veterans.
It is a very moving tribute to those who proudly serve our country in times
of need.

Eleven years ago, while I was a resident at that Veterans Home as
a Vietnam Veteran of the US Navy SeaBees, I became acquainted with a former
Woman Marine doing volunteer services at the Center. A year later we married,
and now we both volunteer at the Center.

At this year?s annual Christmas Party for the residents at the
Center, I asked Tom Hudson, the Activities Director, if he could tell me
anything of your Dad and Mom from their days as residents there. He remembered and
spoke highly of them and of you. I am now on a waiting list to purchase a copy
of the next printing of your book, which has been completely sold out.
Congratulations!

My wife and I would like to wish you and your group and your
families a Merry Christmas and a Happy, Healthy New Year. May God continue to
bless you.

Sincerely,
E.S. ("Van") V. G.

dear mr. bonsall, i am an infantry soldier with the 101st airborne, 2-
327th inf regiment serving in iraq. during my tour here, about 85% of the
married joes here will be returning home single. i guess it plays some part
in the phrase "war is hell". my wife has always been by my side, she is my
true inspiration. even i sit here in this hell wondering if our marriage
will crumble.im ashamed to think it possible. she sent me your book for
christmas. she knows im not into reading romance, but insisted i read it.
its her way of telling me she will always be there for me. its christmas
here and i couldnt of asked for a better gift than to read of the lives of
joe and lillie.i just wanted to thank you for sharing joe and lillies story
with me.and reading your book keeps my spirits up.my wife is my lillie.
just to say its a small world im from abilene texas,and used
to work on a cattle feed lot out on camp barkeley. ive probably driven down
some of the same dirt roads, that your dad drove the stolen tank. thanks
again. sincerely, cpl. w. e. c.

Mr. Bonsall,

Thank you for sharing your story with us. My wife gave me a copy of your

book for a Thanksgiving day gift and I could not set it down until finished.

The sacrifices made by your parents and their will to live are an

inspiration to all. It is for them that I serve this Country proudly in

hope that never again will anyone be subject to the horrors so many

suffered. It is said that behind every good man is a great woman. Well

Sir, behind the hero of a man that was your father, was an Angel sent by

God. I have served for 21 years in the Marine Corps and, I too am married

to one of His Angels for without my wife I would not be here today.

God Bless you and your family during this Christmas season.

Respectively'

Lieutenant Colonel S. D.

Commanding Officer MSSG-13

Forward Deployed, USS Germantown

I just wanted to email you and let you know I read your book and loved it. I
am serving in Iraq and my wife sent it to me for Christmas. I read it right
away and couldn't put it down (I did go to bed one night). I finished it up
this morning.

Thank you for telling that story. Many people don't realize what soldiers go
through AFTER the war. Just because the war is done, doesn't mean the
fighting is over. Many soldiers deal with what they saw for many years. I was
blessed with not having to see any "action" over here, but many have. As your
father said, the ones who lost their lives are the true heroes. And those who
went through the horrors and survived need our support and help in dealing with
the strains of combat.

One Marine I met went through basic training with his buddy, were assigned to
the same unit, and faught together. He spend every day with his buddy for
many months adn saw him killed right beside him. These were 18 year old men. I
thank God that I did not have to see the things these brave men saw.

I am in public affairs and got in country on April 2nd just as the major
conflict was near Baghdad. I moved in as everything was wrapping up and was
blessed to be stationed in the southern part of Iraq with the Marine corps (I'm in
the Army Reserves). Once the Marines pulled out, we moved up to Tikrit with
the 4th ID. It's much more hostile here. The people are nice, but there are
those who want us gone. IED's on the road make it difficult to travel safely.
I just pray that God will watch over us and bring us home safely.

Thanks again for your book. It made me proud to be a part of the same Army
that your father served. It's men like him that made it possible for us to
have freedom. Now as we try to spread those freedoms to other countries, it's
good to know we have the support of the people back home.

Mike

SSG M. C.
367th Mobile Public Affairs Detachment
Tikrit, Iraq

Hey Joey,

I just wanted to drop a quick letter and express to you how much I really
enjoyed "G.I.Joe and Lillie". I just finished it yesterday and actually got misty
eyed at the end, especially the part where you found your mom's picture gift
to you in your drawer. To tell you the truth, I can never get through a whole
book without getting distracted,and with G.I.Joe and Lillie, I could'nt put it
down! I am only 26 years old, and I also served in the Army like your pops,
obviously going through nothing like him, but I always served with honor and
gave and still give thanx in my prayers for heros like your dad. I've been a
"heavy metal" kid my whole life, but I have always loved The Oaks. I never could
really figure out why I loved your guys' music so much when I was 16 and
Country music just wasn't my thing while playing drums in some heavy rocker band,
until I got a little older and somewhat wiser and came to realize the two huge
things that we have in common: Our love for God, and our love for our country.
Thank you again sir for the wonderful book, and the awesome music!

C. M. M.

Hello Joe,

My wife Nancy sent you the 9/11 hotmail with the picture. I was in Normandy.
I got back last night.

I had a very interesting visit. Bobbye took me along the exact route that the
359th took after they landed at Utah Beach. Bobbye took some great pictures
along the way. I did not want to risk my skills with a digital camera and not
have them come out. Once I get them in the mail I will send them to you.

The hospital your father was in is no longer there. They literally fought
every day. From what Bobbye has now concluded, the toughest action was at La
Haye -Du-Puits-.That is where one of the memorials to the 90th stands. I did take
a chance with my camera and took a picture of it.

In action very near St.Lo, there was a a very costly battle. With great
possibility, that is where your Dad was hit. Many 90th casualities there. Bobbye
has promised to put the whole route of the 359th in writing for you. Once I
receive it and the pictures, I will forward to you.

I was able to bring something back for you.The authenticity is not in
question. You will have it by Christmas.

Joe, whether the 60th Anniversary thing works out or not, some day you must
go to Normandy and see all of this. The people there will welcome you with
open arms and give you the thanks they could not give to your Father. The older
ones will never forget the sacrifices he made. You can do it in one week, and
that includes travel. Please do not wait too long, those he fought to save are
getting along in years and it would be such a thrill to hear the stories from
THEM.

Bobbye has spread the word about G.I.Joe and Lillie. He has had it translated
into French and gives it to his friends to read. He plays the C.D constantly
in his car. I do know one thing for sure, as long as Bobbye is around, Pvt.Joseph
Bonsall,Sr. will live in the hearts of as many people he can relay the story to.

Jacque Cherac and the younger generation of France may have forgotten all of
the G.I. Joes that saved their country, but NOT NORMANDY! Not Bobbye Feuillye.

I hope your Christmas tour is going well. I am sure we will talk later.

Bobbye says he will get the memorial plaque done.

God Bless,

Eddie

Dear Joseph,
I enjoyed your book very much. You are a lucky man to have had
parents like them.
I also thought you might be interested to know that the original
"Rosie the Riverter" is still alive and well. She lives here
in Delhi, La., where I practice medicine.
I think she is still actively employed and working.
God Bless you and your family and have a Merry Christmas and
Happy New Year!
Sincerely,
K. M.,M.D.

Dear Joe,

I just finished reading your book G.I. Joe and Lillie and I wanted to

let you know just how much I appreciated it. My dad served with

the 82nd Combat Engineers in Europe and he often talked about the

hedgerow country. Like your dad he didn1t talk about the horror of

war, but it did have an effect on him. My mom said that when he

left for the army in January 1943 he was a carefree, fun-loving guy.

But, when he returned home in December 1945, he had changed. I

wish I had known the first G. D. V., but I did know and

love the second one!

With your book, you have done a great service to many of us

"baby-boomers." We all need to reflect upon what our dads--and

Moms--did for us and thank God for our freedom. Again, thanks

for your book.

Sincerely,

L. V.

P.S. My wife and I have enjoyed the Oaks twice in Branson. The

last time was this past summer when you performed G.I. Joe and

Lillie.

Dear Mr. Bonsall -

Had to write and tell you how much this book moved me -

I have a very dear friend - who was a Marine in Vietnam - and

he has told me much the same as you told about the effect of

the war on your father.

As I read - it was as if I were hearing my

friend speak. Time was different - place was different - but the

effect of the war was the same - The tears flowed while I read

this book - for your father - for my friend - and for all those who

went through the hell called war. And for those serving now - and

their families and friends.

Thank you - for this book. And for the music you and your

fellow Oak Ridge Boys give to us. I ordered Colors same time

I ordered the book.

Sincerely,

J. L. S.

Mr. Bonsall,

Being on the downhill side of 50, I've admired you and the group for
many years. Last night, there was a Christmas special on CMT by the
Oaks. Your song, G.I. Joe and Lillie, brought tears.

I was influenced by the 60's, my Dad was of the depression. I was in
Vietnam, "not really a war"; my Dad was with Patton's 3rd Army, the real
war. We fought often over this. I returned to Ky. for a few short years
after V.N.,leaving in 1974, and to his resentment, I've not returned.
Since, most of my family and I have been estranged. Your song lifted me
from my chair to call my Dad for the first time in many months. God
bless you and yours.

Roger

I just finished reading the book about your parents and I am still in tears.
I really enjoyed reading it. I am sitting at work right now at the VA
hospital in Cleveland, OH. It is the day after Thanksgiving and I have no
patients on my schedule so I brought the book with me to work. I am so glad
that I read it. Thank you very much.

Love,
Dr. R. J. W. B., OD
L. B. S. Cl. VAMC

Dear Joey,

Please allow me to call you this way. (I am 72)

It happens that I just finish reading the book "GI Joe & Lillie" you wrote
about your father and mother war experiences and lives. It happens also that,
although being French, I am very much concerned by the History of the 90th
Division and mainly the Men who were part of it. As I am involved in it for more
than 35 years, I feel like a member of the family and am proud to have dear old
strong friends among these Veterans.

The other reason why I am sending this mail is because I live in a town
called PERIERS, that was liberated by the 359th Rgt of the 90th on July 27, 1944
and, in spite you don't tell exactly the date or place that he was hit, it seems
to me that your father got wounded very close from my hometown.

And third reason; I want you to know that in spite of what you can hear, the
French people have not and will never forget the sacrifices made by Men like
your Father.

If by chance you would know what Company pertained your father in the 359th
Rgt, and the date of wound, perhaps could I give you some information and maps
about what happened to you Dad Outfit at this time.

I would have been honored to know and meet him.

If you feel it's OK, please drop me a line.

Thank you and God bless America.

Most sincerely,

H. G. L., Pdt of the Association Normandy 44 - 90è Division US

I am an American Indian Vietnam Veteran (DOB 12-23-47); I just read your
splendid little book G.I. Joe and Lillie. I presently work for the Kaw Nation of
Indian of Oklahoma. I was just curious: by chance was your beautiful mother
part Native American? What tribe? There are a lot of Native Americans in North
and South Carolina, I understand. Again, this was a sweet book; it was an act of
love. Thank you.

Dear Joseph Bonsall,
My wife recently told me about a book you wrote about your parents. Then I
read about it in a Country Weekly. I can't wait to read it. I'm currently in
Baghdad right now. Just knowing what the book is about is jsut so awesome,
especially since me and my wife married in 3 weeks and then I took her away to Ft.
Lewis Wa. Our 5 year anniversery will be on Dec. 15th. Anyways, I would just
like to thank you for your hard work and dedication in writing such a great
book.
Sincerely,
Sgt. D. C. McG.

Hi Joe

I would like to tell you that I have just finished reading your book "G.>I.

Joe & Lillie" It was wonderful. I could not put it down. I myself am a

military wife and can relate to your family. The touching story of how your

parents met, reminded me of how my husband and I met. We met and married in

3 weeks and he moved from the town where I was born and raised never been

outside except on vacations and small trips to like Nashville. I grew up

near Ft. Campbell in a place called Hopkinsville, KY. I know that you have

been there several times for concerts for that was where I seen you and you

friends there. I also grew up on your music.

My husband and I have been married 5 years this December and it will be the

first time we have been apart since then for he is Iraq. Also we are

currently living in Germany where he is stationed. I am looking forward to

being able to travel and see many places. I am greatful to all those who

serve our country and who have served our country. I thank God everyday for

the wonderful men and women who have chosen to do this duty. Also thankful

for men like you that have also chosen to share your stroy with everyone.

May God Bless you, your family and the "Oak Ridge Boys" for all that you

have done. Have wonderful Holiday season. Thank you once again for the many

inspirations you have shared with me and my family through song and your

book. Also your CD "Colors" is wonderful I got to hear through Launch on

yahoo. I am looking forward to being able to get a copy when it comes to the

PX's in Germany.

Deepest Regards

Mrs. A. McG.
Baumholder, Germany

Dear Mr. Bonsall: Earlier this year I picked up the CD, Colors, and can't
get enough of it. I play it often. When reading the insert in the CD, I
discovered the information about your book. I couldn't wait to order a copy and I
have just finished reading it. What a lovely story. It is so wonderful to
know of your love for your parents and your sister. I am impressed with your
parents' contributions to our country and your willingness to let us all know
their story. I too am the child of a World War II Army soldier. My father has
been gone for several years and I truly miss him. All the time we were
together he did not talk of his experiences either. They were either too painful or
too precious to share. Dad was in the engineer corps in Europe and the
Phillipines from 1043 to 1945. He left a wife and child, me, behind while he served
his country. He and Mom had another child, my brother, in 1949. I will
always be proud of Dad's service. I just recently ran across his enlistment and
honorable discharge papers. It brought tears to my eyes. Thank you again for
sharing your story. I am a huge fan of the Oak Ridge Boys; have been for
years. Please give my regards to all the members of the group and please keep
making music for us, your fans.

Sincerely

C. S., Ephrata, WA

Hi Joe,

I was just watching you on the Steve Gill show. You
did a great job and it would be really cool, if you
had your own show. I will be purchasing your book to
take on my next trip.

It would appear we have much in common. My Wife and I
have a passion for cats. I liberated four cats from
Bosnian while serving there in 01 and 02. I gave one
to Tony Blankley of the Washington Times and his
family in Washington DC. The other two guys ("Bo and
Zav") are now residents of Franklin Tn with my family.

You really get attached to your pets and they really
are like kids.

Now for an unpleasant subject, I deploy for IRAQ in
December. I was in Afghanistan, so I am more prepared
than most.

I do appreciated you and the Oaks for standing behind
our country and our values. Also I knew Noel Fox and
that guy was one of the nicest people in the music
business and just and all around great guy.

Please keep up the outstanding work.

Regards,

J. "Rocky" L.
Franklin, TN

Good Morning,
I just wanted you to know that I read your book this morning!! A friend
gave it to me yesterday, and I couldn't have spent the early morning any
better way. It was a wonderful book that did indeed make me laugh and
cry.
Both my father and father-in-law were veterans of WWII, and as you said in
the book--there was very little ever said about the actual battles, but I
remember many times hearing about how many weeks without ever taking off
his boots!!

Your book is a wonderful tribute to your parents and I am sure they are
both smiling down at you every day.
We have always been fans of Oak Ridge Boys, and have often gone to
Lanierland Music Park near Gainsville, GA and enjoyed your concerts. One
of my favorite snapshots is of our daughter--now 24, at about the age of 6
standing in her seat with her Oaks tee shirt on and clapping and singing
along. Her favorite song was Elvira!

Have A Great Day!

Sincerely,

R. P.

Dear Mr. Bonsall,

I spent Sunday afternoon reading, G.I. Joe and Lillie, and just loved it.
You are a wonderful writer. Thank you writing such an inspirational book about
your beloved parents. They truly were heroes of the highest degree, and
America will always be honored and a better place for their contributions. I was
so touched by their stories, love, devotion and faith, that I plan to give this
book to my friends as a Christmas present.

My father was a Marine who served in the South Pacific and North China. He
is buried at the Santa Fe National Cemetery. I guess that is why this book hit
so close to home and touched my heart so. Thanks for sharing G.I. Joe's and
Lillie's lives by telling their life stories. Anyone who reads the book will
be blessed. I will look forward to seeing them dancing in heaven one of these
days!

May God bless you richly,

C. B. T.

Hello Joe Bonsall:

My name is A.W. and I am sending you this e-mail to let you know that I
read your book G.I. Joe & Lillie, but there is more to the story. I live in
Meeker, Oklahoma, and one day I just happened to be watching television and
flipping the channels and I saw Larry Jones of Feed The Children talking to you
on his program. The thing however that really got my attention was when you
said your father had served in World War II and had been a soldier in the 359th
regiment of the 90th Infantry Division. My uncle on my mother's side of our
family had also served in the 359th regiment, but was killed in action on July
12, 1944 in France. I wrote an article about him last year for our local
museum here in Meeker, and I have attached it to this e-mail for you to read,
since your father was also in his regiment. I created the file in WordPerfect
and called it 359reg90id, so I hope that you will be able to open and read the
information.

I have my uncle's purple heart and certificate from the Army hanging on my
living room wall, and after I read the story about your father it is really
strange how some things seem to parallel. My mom told me that my uncle Johnie
never was really liked much by his step father (his real father died when he was
very young and his mom remarried) and that he was always running him off from
home. He also never got to finish school and he worked some for the Civilian
Conservation Corps before joining the army. In a way it sounded like my uncle
and your dad had about the same type of home life except that his mother did
love him a lot and she was certainly saddend by his death.

When my grandmother died just a few years ago was when I got several of the
things that I have about the 90th infantry division. I have a photo album
which was compiled and published by the 359th infantry. I also have a 25th
anniversary brochure dated Sept. 5, 1942 which celebrates the day with a regimental
parade and ceremony. It lists all of the officers and staff on the back and in
side it has a menu listing the special food that they were having on that
day. I also have a couple of pictures of my uncle's outfit which were stamped
Ft. Dix, New Jersey, so they were apparently taken just before the regiment
shipped out for England.

I probably would never have known about your book at all had I not been tuned
in at that precise moment on that day you were on T.V., so I kind of look at
it as either fate or a strange coincidence. I really bought the book to start
with so that I could learn more about the 359th from the eyes of your father,
but as I read along I really enjoyed the other aspects not only about your
father, but about your mother as well. I will put your book right along side
the 359th Album that I have because it has a place there as it is about one of
the soldier's personal lives. I also liked the part where your father said
that the real heros in his outfit never came home, but I am like you in the fact
that your father was a hero too.

Well I guess that is enough on this subject, but just a couple of unrelated
things to throw in before I sign off. Just wanted to say that I have always
enjoyed the Oak Ridge Boys and your music, and that I do a little pickin' and
grinnin', but not on the same scale as you and the Oaks. Also, it appears that
we are pretty close to the same age, since I was born in Oct. 1947 and I think
you said in the book that you were born in 1948. We are just a part of that
baby boomer generation that started after the WWII.

Take care and thank you for enlighting me some more about the "Tough Ombres"

A. W.

P.S. In case you are not aware there is a World War II Memorial Website at
www.wwiimemorial.com where you can look up information about those who served
in the War or you can submit names and information if they are not listed.

Joe:
Our mutual friends, E. and N. P. of Slidell, LA, sent me your
book and the CD. I couldn't lay it down, and read the book in one
day.
What a wonderful tribute to your parents, but also it's an accurate
study and the World War 11 personality of Americans. Also,it reveals
you as a loving and compassionate son, as well as your sister Nancy.
I
salute both of you. Like your father, I was born in 1925 and "went
away to war" in 1944. I was in the 99th Infantry Division, we were
credited with holding the north shoulder at Elsenborn Ridge (Belgium)
which destroyed Hitler's timetable for the Bulge. I went on to cross
the Rhine at Remagen, liberate concentration camps in Bavaria and was
in Austria on VE Day, May 8,45. I was back home in El Dorado Kansas
on
VJ day. We had been issued equipment for an amphibious invasion of
Japan and were headed west. After Truman dropped the bomb. the Army
re-evaluated my importance and granted me a medical discharge. My
service connected diability which started at 10 percent is now 100
percent and helps a great deal. But I'm still in constant pain and
there is no cure. My feet, legs, and hands son't work properly. I
walk
with a cane. I was a Pfc. After the war I earned a journalism degree
at the University of Kansas on the GI Bill and have been in the
newspaper business since that time. I am still active, at 78, and own
three weekly papers in Central Kansas. Every time you come to Wichita
or Salina my wife and I attend. We enjoy the Oaks. I note that my
friend and former senator, Bob Dole, wrote a heartfelt message. Like
your Dad and others who "were there" Bob understands. Most people
don't. Private Ryan helped, but your book is a masterpiece at
explaining the personality of patriotism which prevailed during World
War II.Tom Brokaw had it right. So was your father, we did what had
to
be done. We were not heroes, but we served alongside them, one on
each
side up and down the ranks. I've had many awards and honors in
Journalism, but nothing touches the pride of being an ordinary
soldier
in the 99th Infantry Division. I earned the $64.80 a month.

Thanks,

B. M.

Mr. Bonsall,

Thank you for sharing your parents story. When I read their story it was
like I was reading about my grandparents. My grandfather was at Iwo Jima and he
was plagued by many health problems. My grandmother never left his side. I
hope maybe one day I can write his story. GI Joe and Lillie is a tribute to
the sacrifices of the past generations and a message to the current generation
that they can never forget that freedom isn't free.

Best wishes for continued success,

EB

Hello Mr. Bonsall,
My name is Sergeant J. P. I am stationed at Fort Bragg, NC. E-mail seems a little formal for this otherwise informal situation but I did not have an address to send a letter so this will have to work.
First of all, I have just finished your book and if I may, it was one of the best books that I have ever read. You see, it means more to me than just a book that I happened to pick up at the library. My birthday is coming up and it was given to me as a present. I recieved the used hard back version via mail from the desert in Iraq. My girlfriend has been deployed over there for a little less than a year and she wanted to get me something to let me know that she still loves me no matter what God may throw in our direction. She has been in a undisclosed location in the middle of the desert that is not even a camp. All that she lives in now is an old blown up building surrounded by a couple of tanks and a burm to keep the enemy out. So there is nothing there. Not even electricity or running water until just recently. It is amazing to me that even through all of this she still wanted to send me something. All that she could get was this copy of G.I. Joe And Lillie that she got from her First Sergeant. The inner theme was to let me know that no matter what difficulties that we may face we will always be there for each other. And I feel the same way.
Her company, the 211th Military Police Company is expected to return sometime in the time frame of January to June. Once she does I plan on asking her to be my wife. I know that it may seem like a lot to ask, but it would be great if there were a possibility of you and your boys to come come here and perform or speak on Ft. Bragg. I am sure that there would be many people that would come to listen. I know for a fact that we would and it would be great for us to meet the author of the book that means so much to us and is an inspiration to our future.
Thank you for your time and considering this request.

Dear Sir,

I am a member of the Army National Guard on deployment in Kuwait.
A friend of mind loaned me a copy of your book, "GI Joe & Lillie"
I read it in one sitting.

Your book is a true inspiring story, of supreme love and devotion.
My father is in the Navy during World War II, and he passed away in February
of 2001.

I believe that if our country is to remain great, we must be willing to make
the sacrifices that your parents made.

Thank you for sharing the story of your parents.

Please pray as we serve our country, that we also serve our God, for he is
sending a revival here in our camp.

SFC R. O.

771st Maintenance Company

Camp Spearhead

Dear Joe, I am a resident of Branson, MO. I picked up your book last week at
the Tanger Mall. I just finished reading it, and it left me in tears, and
speechless. I picked it up, because it reminded me of my own sons. I have two sons
in the US Army , serving in Iraq. I pray for their safe return everyday. I
just want to say how much I enjoyed your book, and how much I admire your talent
for writing. I'm sure your parents were wonderful people. God Bless Them,
and You Also. if you ever come over to Once in a Blue Moon, or Hicks from the
Sticks, stop in and say Hello, and let me shake your hand. Once again, thank you
for such a wonderful story. I thoroughly enjoyed it.

Sincerely,

K. B.

Joe,

Thank you for the tremendous stories of love. Not just the one
between GI Joe and your mother Lillie, but between them and our
country and between you and them.

I don?t know if you remember meeting me in Louisville, KY at the
Great North American RV Rally. We spoke momentarily outside your bus
and we shared the loss of our Joe and Lillie (mine was Buck and
Agnes). You were right, we?re about the same age but there are so
many more parallels in our lives that I discovered reading their
story. I was born in Pittsburgh, the son of an alcoholic and into a
family who couldn?t say ?I love you? because we were never taught
the meaning.

I joined the Navy at age 17, in 1964 to get away in search of
something yet having a burning devotion to our country. I was in
college as an Officer Candidate when the shooting at Kent State, OH
occurred. Like your dad, I was stunned by what was going on
overseas and at home. It was a turning point in my life and the
first time I ever questioned anything I felt to be untouchable such
as ?My country, right or wrong.? I knew I had to fight even harder
to make America a source of freedom and pride. I spent the next
decade and a half as an A-6 Intruder Bombardier/Navigator before
retiring in 1984.

Due to poor health, my dad never made it to my retirement and died
before he could see me receive my Master?s Degree in Addictions
Counseling. Mom died several years later and I remember traveling
home to Illinois and stopping at a tollbooth in Ohio, in tears,
saying to my wife ?I?m an orphan.? Joe my greatest regret is
knowing that my dad and I were never able to say ?I love you? as you
were with your GI Joe. I didn?t make the same mistake with my
mother, but much to my surprise, she was uncomfortable with saying
it. My wife and I made sure that our children feel no such
discomfort and openly express their feelings.

This month my wife, Micki, and I will be in Washington DC and it
will be my privilege to stop in and visit your parents, two truly
American heroes, to their country, their family and to each other.
I will salute them and knowing what they mean to you and what their
story has meant to me, will probably share a tear.
I, too, will be buried in Arlington, together with my wife and I
swell with pride knowing the company I will be keeping. They are in
our prayers, as are you, your sister and of course, the rest of ?The
Oaks.?

Joe, thank you again for sharing your book. Good luck to you in
everything you do and I look forward to the pleasure of another
night with The Oak Ridge Boys. Someday if I have the opportunity, I
would enjoy sharing more about you and your parents.
God Bless and Keep you safe.

Sincerely,
J. J.
LT, United States Navy (Retired)

I just finished reading your book. I could not put it down. It is truely a
wonderful story about two real American heros. I loved the part about the
time they stole the tank and drove it around in the farmers field. I could
just see them out there. What a gas.

His effort when he attacked that hill is unbelievable. God surely had a
unfinished business with him by allowing him to live. I can still see in my
mind the first time your MOM walked up to your DAD. Wow. This picture will
stay with me forever. His story is what makes America strong. Every high
school kid should want to read this story.

The real message here is the testomony of their attitude and loyality to
God, crounty and each other. They were not takers they were givers. They
are the ones John Kennedy spoke of when he said "Ask not what your crountry
can do for you, but ask what you can do for your crountry.

This book is one of the greatest stories of two of the many real American
heros who survived that war and other wars. Their job was to carry the
message forward and they accomplshed their mission.

Your dad was correct and wrong when he said those that died were the real
heros. How humble. He to was a hero because he lived and was able to tell
the story and endured much pain for the rest of his life. The pain this guy
went thru is amazing. The pain he endured for the rest of his life is
remarkable. His wife's loyality is unbelievable. I am proud to know their
story and I will tell eveyone about them. You can be proud of your parents
and I really appreciate your sharing their life with me. I am a Viet Nam
vet. Many times people ask why I volunteered to go there. The reason was
your father and mother. I felt I owed them that much for the sacrifice they
made for me and my family. My brother just came back from Iraq. He reup
after 911 at the age of 40. So the tradition lives on. I know he feels the
same way. There are many of us who belive that giving is better and that is
the real love of our crountry. Who Ra for the US

God bless America and
May God continue to bless you and your family.

M. E. N.

Dear Mr. Bonsall:

I just finished reading your book, G.I. Joe and Lillie and just wanted to
tell you how much I loved it. Your parents, just amazing people, especially your
mom. Not long ago, I lost my job and have been so scared and down that I
wouldn't be able to find employment. Your mom made me feel ashamed of myself!
Everything she went through and in the times she had to go through them were a
lot worst than what I have to deal with, but she did it and so fearlessly.
Like the old Nike commercials she "just did it". She lived life to the fullest,
as it should be lived and it gave me hope. Their story will remain with me,
and the inspiration of your mom will comfort me during this time and I thank
you so much for that! God Bless You! Sincerely, S. J.

Hello Mr. Bonsall,While searching the shelves of a book store in Virginia
last week looking for something of interest on WW II for my son-in-law, I pulled
from the shelf GI Joe &Lillie. Taking a closer look, I saw an old familiar
name and a brief look at the contents affirmed to me , "hey, I know this guy."
After purchasing the book, I headed
to the mall food court and over a cup of coffee, I spent the next hour and a
half smiling, laughing, weeping (a lot) and reminiscing back through my years
of growing up in Kensington, going down " da shore" and being trained for life
as a believer at Calvary. What a treasure your story is and how wonderful
that you took time to tell it. I returned to the shop and ordered more copies as
gifts.
It is also good to know that you are well, successful and sharing your love
of Jesus. D. K. and I, married 36 years, are living on the outer Banks
of NC. We have been blessed with 6 children, 3 children in law and 3 grand
children. Thanks Joe for a really great read, fondly,

A. (H.) K.

Hi Joe,

My name is A. K. We have met before, but you may not remember me.
I am Director of Nursing at the Southeastern Veterans Center in Spring City.
I recently read your wonderful book, "GI Joe & Lillie" and I was deeply
moved. I spent many hours with Mom & Pop and came to love them too. I was so
touched by Mom's dedication to your dad. It was heart touching to see them
sitting side-by-side & holding hands. They were an inspiration to so many...other
residents & staff too.

Mom spoke so highly of you & Nancy. She was so proud of both of you, and
both of you can be very proud of the love and dedication you gave her to the
very end. I know Mom would have loved the book. She told me you were going to
write her story one day!

Mom & Pop live on in the hearts and memories of so many of us at the
Southeastern Veterans Center. Their sacrifices for this country continue to make a
big difference. I hope & pray that I can touch as many hearts by caring for our
Veterans. Please give my best to Nancy.

God Bless You!

Sincerely,

A. K.

P.S. Continue to play your music for Mom, Joe. I know she is still
listening!

I am the wife of the medical director of SEPVC. As a retired psychologist,
I spend one day a week volunteering and meeting with residents at SEPVC. Over
the years, your mother and father were my favorites. This afternoon I just
finished reading "GI Joe and Lillie". It was a wonderful book and I was deeply
moved. Your mother was a remarkable woman and I came to know her well over
the years. She told me about her difficult childhood and how she overcame many
obstacles to leave home. She told me how she met your father but her version
differs from yours. As she saw him, he asked her to kiss him. When she
asked why, he replied that he had never kissed an officer before! She couldn't
resist and fell in love.
Please tell your sister Nancy, that she talked about her often and was so
proud of both of you. She told me about the special concert she attended and how
happy you made her feel. She wanted to be buried near your father and I was
touched to see the picture of her headstone. She got her wish. I was
impressed by your parents' devotion to each other. Reading your book gave me
closure. You and Nancy were fortunate indeed to have such wonderful parents.
Warmest regards,
J. M. K., Ph.D.

Dear Mr. Bonsall, I laughed, I remembered, and cried a lot, when I started
"G.I. Joe & Lillie" early on 8/8/03; and finished it the same day. My
husband, Fred Ziegler, is one of the "greatest generation." Your "mommy" probably
riveted his B-24; as he was a pilot. He is a proud member of the 14th Air
Force, The Flying Tigers. He turned 80 this year and like your "daddy" remembers
the fallen heroes; but talks little of the war. Your tribute to G.I. Joe and
Lillie is a wonderful gift to all of us who have read it and to those who will
read it in the future. Again thank you for an enjoyable day of reading on a
rainy day in Zephyrhills, Fl. Regards, C. Z.

Mr. Bonsall:

I was priviledged to see you and the rest of the Oak
Ridge Boys last night at the Kentucky State Fair.
First of all, thank you all for coming back to our
fair year after year. In my humble opinion, your show
far outclasses the so called big names that come to
the fair once in a awhile. I like old country music
and I appreciate that there are groups like the Oak
Ridge Boys who continue to do GREAT work.

I also wanted to thank you for sharing the story of GI
Joe and Lillie both in Book and Song form. I must
confess that when you finished singing the song last
night I had a tear in my eye. I am a Navy Veteran, 18
years until medically discharged in 1989. Stories
like this one need to be told so that hopefully some
of the young people of our great nation will
understand what price has been paid for their freedom
and maybe it will inspire some of the younger folks to
do what it takes to redirect this country back onto a
path to make sure that it remains strong and free.

GOD Bless You and your family and the rest of the
gentlemen in the Oaks, I wish you many more years of
great music and many more trips to the Kentucky State
Fair, because, God willing, I will be there every year
that you are.

Sincerely,

S. F. R. Jr.
AT1 United States Navy
Retired (Medically)

Joe, My dad was in the Army Air Corps during world war 2. He flew b 24
bombers out of Italy . I never really knew much about those years, but recently we
sat down and he told me things that made my hair stand up on my head. He
started by digging out his old dd-214 and his Honerable discharge and as I read
those , as much as I loved and was proud of my father, It was hard to look at this
frail, 80 year old man and imagine what he must have been like during that
war. When I read the story of your mother and father and that they had passed
away, I thought that in the near future we will not have men like my dad around
to honor as they should be honored. Me and my wife saw your show in Branson
last year during veterans week and we very much enjoyed it. I hope I will be
able to bring my dad to one of your shows in the future because I know he would
enjoy it very much. I want to personally thank you for helping keep the
memories of these men who went into harms way for me and my children and grand
children. Maybe one day I can shake your hand and thank you personally and maybe
introduce you to J.D. Norris, my father . God Bless B. N.

Dear Joe,

I just finished your book about your parents. I'm just a little younger than
you (50) but this book really hit home.

My Dad entered WWII in 1944 in the Pacific theater. He was stationed in Ie
Shima and Okinawa and was present at the final surrender negotions of the
Japanese. He has some medals which I inherited but never talked to me about the
War, as I'm sure the horrors were not something he wanted to bring up. Unlike
your Dad, my lived a pretty good life until his late 50's when a had a minor
stroke, which was followed by diabetes, heart disease, and probably Alzheimer's
near the end.

THrough all of this my mother took care of him, getting his oxygen, cleaning
up messes, etc as he didn't want nursing care but didn't seem to realize how
hard this was on my mom.

As the years passed and his health declined, it never was a possibility of
mom not caring for him nor was the love they shared ever in doubt. The marriage
was forever.

Dad passed away a few years back and since mom has had some heart trouble and
hip replacement. I know she won't be around much longer either. Her name is
already etched in stone with his when her resting time comes.

People just don't do that anymore. The greatest generation truly was.

My family has been ORB fans for years. My dad even went to see you at
Norwell High School in the middle 70's when you were just about to go county. He
always loved your music and of course sang bass like Richard (ha ha). My
sister has been in the ORB fan club forever.

So thanks for the music but more importantly thanks for helping preserve
these great people for eternity.

Best Wishes

S. W.
Beech Grove, IN

Mr. Bonsall,

I am stationed at Malmstrom AFB in Great Falls with the 341st

Security Forces Group. I was at your concert in Great Falls, I enjoyed

everyminute of it. So I decided to go and purchase your book "G. I. Joe &

Lillie", I loved it. It is a wonderful American story and I am glad that you

decided to share it with us. I even called my mother and encouraged her to

buy the Oak Ridge Boys new cd and will be encouraging her to also read your

book. May God continue to bless you and the Oak Ridge Boys.

Amn M. E. K., USAF

You signed my book and added "To Empiro" as I told you the story of

my son, at age 3 asking, "Play Empiro, Daddy, play Empiro !!"---He wanted

me to play ELVIRA. My son, Andrew, is age 23 now, and is a Staff Sgt in

the USAF as a security policeman. He is currently in training at Lackland

AFB Tx to become a dog handler. His mother and and I are very proud of

Joe, as a Vietnam Veteran, I thank you for being you ! You

have a singing talent that is shared with the Oak Ridge Boys, around the USA

and around the world. You have found your way to serve others, your niche

so to speak. God provides us all with talents in various creative ways.

Your talent as an author is another way for you to serve, and you do that

well too. There are many life lessons the reader learns from reading GI

Joe and Lillie. A reader would have the emotions of a rock, not to be

touched by your writings.

I have a few pages left to read, and I look forward to that.

Thank you again, You have touched my heart and soul deeper than you can

imagine. I love you, and all the Oak Ridge Boys.

F. S., Albert Lea Mn.

Hello,

I just finished your wonderful book and had to write. Yesterday, my first
day back in Maine for vacation visiting my family ( I live in Arizona) I decided
to relax and try to read a book. Grabbed the new biography on Katherin
Hepburn and started to read. My Dad, seeing me, said " I have a book you will love
and have to read. I am sure this story is better than any other you could
read" " I read it in just a few days he said and it was really really good".
He brought me your book, G.I. Joe and Lillie, and I started to read. Couldn't
put it down. I haven't been able to read a complete book for many years after
having been an avid reader my whole life! My life kept my mind too busy to
concentrate on all the books I tried. But your story was different.

Four years ago, I married a Vietnam veteran. Frank saw alot of combat and
still suffers from PTSD altho he does very well. I went to a Vietnam Wives
support group to try to understand this condition before I married him, but I
still found it somewhat difficult to accept and understand.

The story of your Mom and Dad made me realize that all I really need to do is
to love
love him. Love does conquer it all doesn't it? I have a renewed
appreciation for his struggle and an admiration of his strength to endure.

You said it was really simple why Lillie met G.I. Joe and married so quickly.
It was God's plan. I believe it was also his plan for you to write this
true love story, so that people like me could be touched. I was moved to tears
many times. I come away from this book with a new devotion to my husband. I
thank you and your loving family for that.

I know that you wanted your Mom to be there to guide and help direct you with
this book and I believe she was. Every word written was guided by her love I
am sure.

I also love and admire Barbara Bush and her fondness for your Mom and Dad
gave me a new glimpse into her heart as well.

Anyway, Joey ( i think of you that way now) I wanted to write to let you
know, that your work in this book has moved me and affected my life and the life
of my husbands. Thank you for the gift.

I have always enjoyed the music of the Oak Ridge Boys, but now, I will listen
with a new heart.

Wishing you Peace,
D. M.
ps It would make a wonderful movie!

When I wrote the other day, I alluded to an organization that I'm involved with called Angels 'n Camouflage, http://www.angelsncamouflage.com/. We support the soldiers of today as well as the soldiers of yesterday. I was talking with the founder who is going through all the paperwork to establish 501 (c) (3) status for this organization. I told you that I would be telling everyone that I know about your book, and I have. I've had literally hundreds tells me they've gone into their Barnes and Noble stores and it wasn't there but the managers said we can order it. Then they looked on the Oaks website and decided to order it from there.

Since we are a group of Christians, and we support veterans, and since this book is so much more than a love story, it truly is a story of faith, we'd like to promote it on our website. We'd like to link back to your website and to the Oak Ridge Boys website. We didn't want to do this without asking you first. Please take a look at our little corner of the web and if it's okay with you, we'd sure like to do what we can to promote "G.I. Joe & Lillie" and of course, the author, and the Oak Ridge Boys.

Let us know.

In His Service,
Mary Louise Lawhorn
proud Army wife

Hi Joe.

I bought your book for several reasons. Maybe a little bit was because I've
been an Oaks fan for too many years to say. Two other reasons are I have
developed an interest in the Military since my son went in the Navy last year; and
I've always had a thing for Arlington Cemetery.

Last month I took "G.I. Joe and Lillie" on vacation. I read it the first
afternoon. Of course I cried, but I cry when I watch Charlie Brown, too. The story
of undying true love got me more than the "sad" parts. It was such an amazing
love story.

Anyway, back to my vacation story. My family and another family rent a house
on Jekyll Island for a week almost every year. Bob is the husband and father
of the other family. Bob served in the Navy before his career in the Army. He
is a Vietnam Vet, a retired captain. After he left the Army, he taught JROTC at
inner-city high schools in Atlanta. He retired from there last year. Okay,
you get the idea, Bob is one tough guy.

After I read your book, I left it on the coffee table while I was out. When I
came back to the house, Bob was sitting out front, reading the book and tears
were rolling down his face. Our families have been friends for about 15
years, and I have never seen him cry. When his father died, he kept his tears in
check in front of everyone.

I wanted to share this with you. It touches everyone that reads it. Thank you
for telling your parent's story.

D. G.

Our Sunday paper (Parade Magazine) had a write up about your book GI Joe and

Lillie. Since I have an interest in the military and have seen you for

years with the Oak Ridge Boys, I had to go right out and buy it.

The book and the song are great! The song is quite a tear jerker! I am now

interested very much to go and talk to my dad and my husband's dad about the

war years....both of them have told interesting stories for many years. I

now know I must commit these to memory and video them.

We have been blessed for the last five years to serve in the AF at Hickam

AFB. We go out to the Arizona memorial and honor those guys who

sacrificed so much for our freedom.

I am writing from my husbands computer at work because we are packed up and

ready to move to Hurlburt Field Florida within two weeks. I just wanted to

let you know how much I appreciate your book!

Sincerely,

B. H.

R. B. H., Lt Col, USAF

Commander, 15th Comptroller Squadron

Hickam AFB, HI

I just finished reading your book G.I. Joe & Lillie. I enjoyed
it
very much, it was a beautiful love story that could only be told by
someone very
close to these two wonderful people. I was able to get my autographed
copy
through a local radio station web site.

I think that their story would make a wonderful TV movie the
young
people of today have little knowledge of W.W.II and the brave men and
women who
fought and died to give the freedoms we should value today.

I can empathize with your mother taking care of your father. I
met my
late wife in 1968 while working at a rehabilitation hospital. She was
injured in an automobile accident while in college, and was paralyzed
from about the
shoulders down. We had a happy loving marriage for almost 25 years
before
she too "went home." I did find love again with another wonderful lady
and am
now living in Scottsdale, AZ. She too has a disability, being legally
blind
and hearing impaired.
Like your father I spent two years in the Army. Judy, my late
wife
sent a letter to our state Senator after I was drafted telling him of
my work
with her during her hospitalization. He in turn had my military
occupation
specialty changed to Physical Therapy Specialist so I continued working
with
disabled GIS returning from Viet Nam. It was a rewarding experience
and I am proud
of my time in the military.
I have enjoyed The Oak Ridge Boys music for years listening to
your
records, tapes and your new CD. Colors is a wonderful collection of
songs. I
hope that G.I. Joe and Lillie becomes a hit. I am also sending an
E-mail to
local radio stations here in Phoenix requesting that they give it air
time.
There is a little oldies/new station in Wickenberg KSWG that plays your
classics.
This is where I got your book. I know they will give it air time.
I know this is a long letter, but I knew I had to send it when I
finished the book. Please continue to sing the songs that speak of our
country and
our Lord. It is rare these days to hear such wonderful music. I also
hope
that you will continue with your writing and pursue a movie for G.I.
Joe and
Lillie. I know that they would be pleased. God's Blessings for you,
your sister
and The Oak Ridge Boys. G. M. B.

Dear Sir,

It was truly my good fortune to see your interview with Brit Hume this
morning (We are 8 hours ahead of EST).

What a great interview - Fox news is the only English channel we can
receive.
We had a chance to unwind a bit yesterday and the holiday meal was
great
(Steak, polish sausage, and the usual trimmings - watermelon to boot).

I am sure the personal time you shared placing your book by your
parent's
resting place was a special time for you.

I called my wife and asked her to secure and send me a copy of your
tribute.
As promised - I will show up at one the Oaks live poerformances at the
first
opportunity. Sir - I hope to shake your hand and ask you to sign my
personal
copy of GI Joe and Lillie.

I wonder if you will be attending the surprise birthday party. If you
get
half a chance - please convey the soldiers in the 101st Abn that I
serve with
could not have more respect or confidence for our Commander in Chief.
We are
making a difference every day and will not let a few rob the masses of
the
liberty and freedom we hold dear.

It seems the media is obsessively focused on the negatives - only those
close
to the action here and the many Iraqi's who now have a promise for a
brighter
future really appreciate what we are doing.

My family attended the fireworks show and carnival at Fort Campbell - my
youngest son, Jared forced my wife to ride all the rides - she is not a
thrill
seeker and was still reeling from her sacrifice when I spoke to her.

Congratulations on what I know will be a best seller! You will never
know
the lives you have/will touch and the patriotism and respect that will
be
rekindled by your tribute to our veterans and their sacrifice.

Warm Regards and Best Wishes to You and Yours!

LTC B. H.

Dear Joseph,

I just finished reading your book. WOW! I have so
many adjectives I want to use, but I sincerely doubt any of them would do it
justice. Here it goes any way. Powerful, moving, empowering, touching,
dedication, commitment, gratifying, horrifying, Americana, patriotic... You
get the point. By the end I was bawling like a baby. Even if I didn't know
you, your compassion and the energy you exude, I would still feel impacted
by such a touching remembrance. What courage it must have taken to write
this while still grieving. I too am a firm believer in learning and growing
from reading and at different points in my life have been a voracious
reader. Thanks so much for sharing you parent's story with the world. I
hope everyone who reads this book, and everyone should, comes away with
something. By the way, you look just like your mother.
S. B.

Dear Mr. Bonsall:

I just finished reading "G.I. Joe & Lillie" and was left with such mixed
feelings of deep sadness and joy. Sadness that your beloved dad had such
a difficult life from beginning to end and joy at reading about your
wonderful mother. Your dad truly was a hero and I thank him for giving
his entire life with the great pain physically, emotionally, mentally and
I'm sure spiritually he gave that I might enjoy all of the wonderful
freedoms that I have. I so fell in love with your mother because of her
endurance, persistence, unconditional love and her tremendous faith. You
too were blessed with such a loving mother. Thank you for sharing your
most personal life with us.

We were in Branson a few years ago, sat in the front row at your concert
and had one of the best times ever. We loved your energy, your clean
show, your great talent and those almonds!!! Thank you for sharing the
Oaks and giving up a great part of each of your lives to entertain us;
thank you for your wonderful patriotism and your faith.

I am off to buy "Colors"!!

D. M.
West Fargo, North Dakota

Mr. Bonsall,

My name is Ann Vick. This past Saturday, June 22, on a whim I stopped by
Lifeway Christian Store in Greensboro NC. I had no real reason to stop. As I
entered the store there was a patriotic display with your book on it. I have
been a fan of the Oakridge Boys for years but in all honesty, it was not the
author's name that caught my eye. What caught my eye was the cover and the fact
that this was a WWII story. I opened the book and began reading about what
the story was about. It was then that I realized who the author was. Not only
did I purchase your book but I also purchased the "Colors" cd. It is now
Monday afternoon and I just finished reading your book. I would have finished it
long before now had it not been for a date on Saturday night, Church on
Sunday, and attending classes this morning. This is how intriguing your book is.
It truly is a love story and one you should be so proud to be a part of. I
guess in a way your book also touched me personally. You see, my paternal g
randfather was raised in Roanoke Rapids and some of the family still reside there.

I hope you don't see this email as far-fetched. I have never attempted to
make contact with a celebrity but I just had to tell you how much I enjoyed your
book. May God continue to bless you and your family. Please let Nancy know
that as a daughter, if a time comes when I or my sister must care for our
parents, I hope we are able to do so as well as the two of you.

Thank you for telling GI Joe and Lillie's story.

A. V.

Haw River, NC

(From my nieghbors KEN AND JANE)

Several weeks ago we drove to Atlanta to visit Shannon, Stephanie and of

course Hailey. We had decided that since you had written your book on

the road, we wanted to read it ?on the road? so as we got out of

Hendersonville, Jane began to read it aloud. She read it all the way to

Atlanta and part of the way back?since it was the Memorial Day weekend,

the book had a special life of its own, veterans, memory, sacrifice,

debt and of course family. On a number of occasions Jane would be

reading and her voice would break and she would take a breath and my

eyes would water over and she would continue?when your mother asked for

the banana split, it nearly got to us both. Remember Jane?s mom? Well,

ever once in a while I would drop by Sonic and get her a juicy hamburger

with onions and all the fixins plus onion rings?the banana split

reminded me of those moments. Jane?s Dad along with his three brother

all enlisted on the same day. The Dallas morning news had a picture of

the four brothers enlisting the same day. Jane?s dad, Stansell was his

name joined the Navy, was in the CBs and spent two years in the

Aleutians?we couldn?t identify with all your story, but so much of it

took our minds back to great memories on that Memorial weekend.

My parents have been encouraging me for at least a month to read "G.I.

Joe & Lillie." Sitting here on vacation in the Outer Banks, gave me the

opportunity to do just that. I felt that I needed to let you know how much

I enjoyed meeting these wonderful people. What thrilled me also, was the

familiar ground that you covered throughout the book.

I also grew up in Phila during the same years. My parents are in the

same age group as yours, so they have many stories related to the war years.

Your story opened up many discussions of events that happened to them about

the same time.

It brought back so many fond memories of my high school days. We sang

together in Frankford's choir. Wasn't that a fun time of life! I always

knew that you would go on to great things, you always seemed to glow

whenever you sang.

I have lived in Royersford for over 20 years, with my husband and two

sons. What a wonderful area in which to raise a family. I have been a

Registered Nurse for over 30 years. Although I work full time for an

insurance company, I do work on weekends for an agency. For over one year

now, I have been assigned to the Vet Center in Spring City. I began working

there after your parents were gone, but I certainly know Room 411. I love

going into this facility, the men and women have so many memories to share.

Thank You, Joe, for your touching recount of two lives. Just wanted you

to know that there are many of us out here who have enjoyed it immensely.

L. T. O.

Dear Mr. Bonsall-

I just finished reading your parents' book GI Joe and Lillie. I just wanted
you to know that I absolutely loved it. Your mother is such an inspiration.
I am a young Christian Army wife and I can relate to a lot that was said in
your book. It is so inspiring to me that it makes me want to be just that
more trusting in the Lord and give that little extra to my "GI Joe". I am
involved in an online MSN group (Christian Military Wives) and I going there
right now to recommend your book to all of the wives. I hope that it will be
as inspiring to them as it was to me. I read your book in one day, something
that I rarely do but I could not put it down. I want to thank you for
sharing your family with us it is so wonderful. Thank you for your support
of the soldiers especially during this time with the war on Terrorism going
on. God Bless you and your family.

Sincerely,
S. A. B. - Proud US Army Wife to Sgt A. B. of 25th Infantry Division

I am involved in an online MSN group (Christian Military Wives) and I going
there right now to recommend your book to all of the wives.

Dear Joe,

I am not sure where to begin, gosh when I became a fan at the age of 8 never
did I realize that 21 years later, your family would inspire me in such a
way. I had all intent to buy the book when it came out. Little did I realize when
all the talk of the book began that it would help me get throuh the current
war. I got the book the week it came out about the time I would be sending
my husband off to Kuwait, for personal reasons, I just could not read it at
that time. Today was the day it was ment to be read, wow from page 140 to the
ending all I did was cry.

I hope that I can be half the military wife that your mother was. I hope to
one day make it up to Arlington to pay my respects to those who did so much
for me. Until then I live in a huge military town and I say thank you to each
vet I meet. My Husband's name is Joe and for years my Mom has called him GI
Joe, he is also a Tough Ombre, I had to smile when I saw your Dad was one
also. I think that my husband has a specail angel up there looking out for
him in your Dad.

Thank You,
Nicole F. Leonard-Wheeler

Dear Mr Bonsall: It could not have been more appropriate that I found myself
reading "G I Joe & Lillie" this Memorial Day week. You have a heartwarming
story & wonderful legacy. It reminds me of my own family -- uncles who served,
one never made it home, aunts who kept the homefires. Daddy worked on the
troop & supply trains for the Reading Railroad during the war & Mom worked in a
mill & kept her victory garden. Having been born in 1955 I've only heard the
stories, but there is so much emotion carried in the telling of those stories
even today. It is sad that we are all too soon losing our priceless,
irreplaceable "greatest generation" treasure. Thank you for sharing some of those
remarkable lives with us. Your parents' story was even more special to me since
I grew up an hour away from Phillie, went to school in Macungie, & knew many
of the places you mentioned. May we always remember & ever be grateful.--
P. L., Toccoa, GA

First, 2 things. I loved the book & Joe thank you for sharing your parents
story with us.

Your mother was a lady in the truest sense of the word Joe. And your father
was a true hero. I know he stated over and over again the real heros didn't
come home, but your father is one that did. And for that I think all Americans
should be thankful for. I know I am.

Its amazing that after coming from a rough life at home growing up and a home
life that did not have to much to offer 2 people become heros, meet, fall in
love and raise a family. And remain devoted to one another for over 50 years.

Joe will you please do me a favor the next time you visit your parents at
Arlington National Cemetary? Please tell them both thank you for my freedom. And
for that matter the freedom of ever single American here in this forum and in
the country.
Every Vet. I meet I shake their hand and thank them. Even if they are a young
Vet. who just got out of the service or a retired one who fought in any of
the past wars. They deserve nothing less. They are there, regardless of their
job in the military, fighting for and protecting our freedoms.
So Joe, please thank your parents for me and thank you to the rest of the
Vets. who are members of this forum.

And thank you again Joe for the wonderful story about your parents.

Peace and Blessings.

John

I am sitting in room 422 of Dallas Children's Medical Center where I have
just finished reading your book. It was a tremendous encouragement to me in
the battles that I fight everyday. My 13 year old daughter Katie has just
completed her 29th surgery as I read in the waiting room. We have recently
learned that she will not be able to receive a much needed kidney transplant
(I was to be the donor) because of a few complications. In fact, her future
is pretty dim right now and we are looking for ways to give her quality life
with every day that she has left.

As we battle for Katie's life, I find myself searching for the courage and
strength to be the husband and father that my family needs. I pastor a
small baptist church in May, Texas and my wife teaches special ed. in a
nearby community. Our relationship with Christ provides us the grace that we
need to face each obstacle along with our 3 other daughters. I find that He
often sends little things into my path to give me just what I need for the
day. G.I. Joe and Lillie spoke greatly to my heart today. And God used them
to give me the courage I need.

I picked up the book for three reasons. I am greatly moved by the "greatest
generation" - thier tremendous accomplishments and sacrifices. I have loved
The Oak Ridge Boys for nearly 30 years. And I noticed the forward was by a
woman whom I greatly admire - Barbara Bush. I rarely read a book in one
sitting - in fact I don't know if I ever have. However, today was the day-as
I sat in the hospital facing the uncertainty of Katie's future-that I needed
every word. I gained great strength from the tremendous example of your
godly mother. I will never forget the images of her working two jobs and
caring for a very ill husband because "It was right." Of her cuddling his
frail body in her arms because "love never fails." It is that kind of
strength and commitment that I strive to give my family and congregation
everyday. It is that kind of love that our nation greatly needs.

Thank you!!! I know that you must have shed many tears as you put the words
to print and edit the manuscripts over and over. I shed many tears as I read
it today. Be assured that your effort is greatly appreciated by this young
American Dad who hopes to rise to such a level of faith, courage, commitment,
service, and love.

In HIS Service,

Br. D. H.

Hello,

Last night I decided to read a few pages of your book before I went to sleep.
I finished reading it before I went to sleep.

I had an Uncle, Jewel King, he is now deceased, who was in World War II. I
was born in 1949, so I didn't live during the war. When I was young we knew
that on the 4th of July Uncle Jewel would be at our house. We lived out in
the country, and he could not tolerate the sound of the fireworks going off.
Just like your Father, he had medals, but you never did hear him speak of
them. I knew that he had them but that is something he did not want to talk
about. I understand that he had horrible nightmares all of his life but again
that is something that he just endured and didn't mention. Your book just
makes you really think about what is going on overseas now. People need to be
praying for those young men and women.

Thank you again for a good book. I seen it advertise and had to buy it,
because you had wrote it. I have always like the Oak Ridge Boys music. Myself
I own alot of your music. Yet I still like the southern gospel music the best.

Just wanted to let you know I thought the book was good.

B. A.

Dear Mr. Bonsall, (Joseph)
I have read quite a few books...but this one...is the most touching
story I have ever read and "felt".
You put me in a place where I felt I was actually there. I finished
your book almost as quickly as when I started it....and wanted more! You
were able to help me feel what my father felt in the war, and what my mother
felt for my father. So many of us long for that. To understand. Thank you
for such a wonderful experience!!
G.I. Joe & Lillie gave me chills while reading it...and times after,
just thinking of what I have read. You, and your mom and dads story, will be
with me for as long as time last. Thank you again. And your music and
singing....well ....no words can express how long you ALL have been in my
life...and loving everyone minute of it..
Sincerely,
J. G.
Franklin, Tn

Joe,

I have read GI Joe and Lillie 3 times and all i can say is
WOW. That is one amazing book and you are one talented writer my friend. I
read the book cover to cover and you actually took me to Philly to be with
your Daddy as he was growing up in the streets and you took me to North
Carolina and i could see your Mommy picking cotton and sitting on the front
porch swing and i also took a trip to Normandy with your Daddy as he
invaded. It just really blew me away. I am not a child of that era so, you
really brought what your mommy and daddy went through to the forefront. And
now i am sitting here reading your commentaries on JosephSBonsall.com and
again i am floored. I was actually watching you on the John Deere Tractor
and at your First Cathedral Quartet concert.Again, my friend you are one
amazing writer and one amazing singer and i am sooo proud to be a fan and
"friend" of yours.
Your fan and friend

Jason

Dear Joe,
I went to "Books A Million" today just to get your book. Just reading the
Prologue & Preface I had tears in my eyes. In fact, I put it down and took a
break before could I start on chapter one! But, once I got started I couldn't
put it down. I laughed and cried all at the same time. I have never read a
more touching story. Thank you so much for sharing this with all of us. You
are such a talented writer. You made G.I. Joe & Lillie real to me, just as if
I had known them. I have come to love them and will be looking for them one
day when I am called home. This is a story I will never forget!
Blessings to you & your family,
Pam

Dear Joe Bonsall, I was recently married and my wife and I spent our
honeymoon in Branson,MO where we were fortunate enough to see The Oak Ridge
Boys Show, Which we enjoyed very much. Ialso picked up a copy of G.I. Joe &
Lillie which ijust finished reading, and I must tell you that I really
enjoyed your book. I am a Veteran of the Vietnam War, and your book really
got to me much so that it brought tears to my eyes. Thank You for sharing the
story of your family with us. I would also like to thank the Oak
Ridge Boys for honoring the veterans at your concerts, and I hope that your
tour will ounce again include Merrillville, IN where I have enjoyed many of
your concerts.
Respectfully, L. D. a fan of the Oaks

Dear Mr. Bonsall,

It's almost 1 am here in Lombard, Ill, and I just finished your book. I had
read only the first few sentences and I was hooked for the duration. Thank
you so very much for telling this story. The faith in God, our country and
each other that your parents shared should be a vital part of our lives
today. Thank you for honoring their way of life, and the lives of all of us
who try to follow this example as set by our own parents. Smooth sailing.
J. G.

Mr. Bonsall:

Thank you so much for the moving account of your precious mom and dad, and their involvement in the war of all wars, WWII.

My dad was a "grunt" in the Army's Red Diamond Division, under Gen. George S. Patton. While my dad never talked about the war either, he was proud to have served his country. My dad received the Purple Heart with Oak Leaf Cluster, the CIB (Combat Infantry Badge), European African Middle Eastern Campaign, Army of Occupation, and the WWII Victory Medal. My dad also lied about his age in order to join "this man's Army." This daughter will be forever grateful to not only him, but to all veterans who served in not only the past, but today also.

I can assure you I will recommend your book to ALL my friends, and my church family as well.

Again, thank you for the wonderful memories.

Yours sincerel y,

B.M.
Franklin, TN

I just finished reading your book G.I. Joe and Lillie, how proud your mother
and father be have been to have a son like you!!!! The tribute was
beautifully written and brings back so many memories of the men and women who
fought to ensure our freedom today.

We attended your show in Branson, MO and enjoyed it also. With the singing
of your song G.I. Joe and Lillie I don't think there were many dry eyes in
the theater. I guess we all can relate to someone who serviced time in World
War 11. Thanks againfor taking the time to put your memories into book form
so millions can take a stroll down memory lane in their own way. Brenda
Verchinski

Dearest Joe,
At almost 50 and an avid reader, I've read many books. I can honestly say that 3 have stuck with me. The Bible, Death Be Not Proud and this book of yours.
I laughed, cried and pondered with almost every page. Your description of all of your family left me feeling I knew them. They just weren't characters in a novel created buy someone. You not only have a gift of song but as a writer too.
Lilly was an amazing woman who stood by her beliefs and convictions. The lady had unending faith in her husband and children. Your Dad sounded like a colorful and kind man. I only wish I could have known them. It's no wonder you and Nancy are who and what you are. The both of you had incredible teachers. They surely have a special place in Heaven.
I pray the Lord keeps blessing you and all that you do. You are an inspiration.
Warmest thoughts,
Patricia

Dear Joe,
My name is Nora Anderson. I am 11 years old. I met you in Branson on your opening afternoon. I purchased your book G I Joe & Lillie, and you signed it and asked me to email you when I finished reading it. It was a very good book. I enjoyed reading it and cried at the parts when your parents died. I talked over the part about the war with my parents. I understood exactly what was going on in the book.

I read this book for a book report for school. It took me about 1 week to read the book.

My older brother is reading it now, and my parents and grandparents are waiting to read it.

I am looking forward to your COLOR CD coming out.

Yours truly,
N. A.

Dear Joseph:

I wanted to email you and let you know how much your book meant to me..I don't know if you remember me or not..I was at the Tim McGraw concert in Nashville..I had written on a piece of paper that my husband was in Kuwait and I wanted your autograph to send to him...you signed it in the dark because the lights went out...I didn't get Richard's autograph because the concert started..anyway...that is not why I am writing to you..My husband has been gone for 5 weeks and 3 days now...and your book really opened my eyes to what he must be experiencing..being from a non military family, I really didn't understand the concept of war..and I don't get to talk to my husband very much, but like all the other family members of our soldiers we find ourselves glued to the television sets relying on that information to know how our loved ones are doing. Through your book, I feel like I know your Mother and Father, and the love she felt for him is the same kind of love I have for my husband..Ironically his name is Joe too..I wanted to Thank You for sharing your parents story, and giving me hope that no matter what happens during this war through faith and love anything is possible.

Thank You,
S. R.

Joe,

I just finished reading "GI Joe and Lillie" and I really loved it. Thank you for inspiring me to be more appreciative of the men and women who make such sacrifices for my freedom. I never really appreciated or understood the gravity of these men and women's sacfrices for freedoms I truly take for granted until now. Thank you.

My husband and I were recently in Branson and saw you and the boys perform at the Grand Palace. We are now totally hooked!!!!!! I listen to your milllieum CD a lot and love it. We are anxious for the "Colors" CD to come out. I absolutely loved the songs at the concert so I am certain I will love the CD.

Thank you for the great music. At thirty years, you guys still put on one heck of show!!!!!!! Also, thank YOU so much for the wonderful and inspiriational story of "GI Joe and Lillie.

We look forward to seeing you in Minnesota in July.

B. C.
St. Francis, MN

Here is the first e-mail:

Dear Joe,
Hello! I hope things are well with you. I am writing to share a Molly
story with you. (I have been using your Molly books in my classroom since
1999. In the past, my children wrote to Molly and you wrote back to them.)
My stuffed animal version of Molly is very much alive in my classroom and
believe me, each year she takes on a life of her own.

Anyhow, Molly has helped to comfort a 7 year old in my room named Joshua
Wilson. This past Monday, Josh's dad passed away at the age of 39 from
respiratory failure due to exposure to chemicals in the Persian Gulf War. I
"asked" Molly if she wanted to keep Josh company while all of this was
happening and Josh was thrilled. Josh kept a journal of what Molly did each
night at the Wilson's house. Then, when the time came, Josh kept Molly with
him at the funeral home and during the funeral. I wanted Josh to have
something to hang onto for comfort or to take the reality away for awhile
and Molly was a God send. Josh's mom was so thankful too.

I wanted to share this with you as you are the creator of Molly and to
remind you of what a gift you have shared with people. I am sure that when
G.I. Joe and Lillie comes out, you will touch millions of more lives.

Mark Wilson (Josh's dad) was a veteran of both the Air Force and the Marines
and he too gave his life to protect the United States. I had the honor of
knowing this great man and he told me on Jan. 31st of this year that he
would do it all again to protect our country. And now, a few weeks later,
he has gone home to be with God.

Thanks again for writing your Molly books and for sharing G.I. Joe and
Lillie with the world! And thanks for the Oaks, as you all make the world
such a better place!

Sincerely,
E. P.

P.S.S. On a MUCH lighter note...I was talking with my children about the
"Gulf" War and one of my boys looked up at me with a very puzzled look on
his face and said "Miss P., why on earth would anyone go to war over
"golf"? Made me laugh! 7 year olds are priceless.

I just picked up your book Friday afternoon at work (I work for a Christian book distributor) and read through it over the weekend. Thank you! I enjoyed it and was blessed by it. I served in the Navy ('68-'72 - Vietnam) and a lot of the military side reminded me of my time spent and the things I felt and went through during that period. But the book really reminded me of my mom and dad and our family. My dad served in WWII and though he did not talk about it, I did see some pictures of him as a 'skinny kid' from Rochester, NY with his hat cocked to one side ... he was my 'hero' and still is, and like yours he is home with mom now ... God Bless you for taking the time to share your family ...

Sincerely,

B.K.
Santa Ana, California

Dear Joe,

We have both just read your moving book about your parents and family. Thank
you so much for writing it and sharing. Your Mom was a strong Christian lady
deeply devoted to her husband and family. What a testimony to those who read it!

Lord bless you,

B. & M. N.
California

Dear Joseph

Thank you for sharing your parents' lives with those of us fortunate
enough to have the book. It is an inspiration.

The Christian testimony is very moving, and the commitment and dedication
that your mother showed toward your father was extraordinary. People of
our parents generation were just a step above. The builders - what an
appropriate title for that generation. My parents were farmers in north
central Iowa, so my dad was deferred because he was feeding the nation,
and had 4 children. However, my husband and I are voracious readers. We
read Band of Brothers, along with many other books this past year. We
really enjoyed 'George and Laura' . How fortunate you are to be personal
friends with the Bush family. We love and respect our President and pray
for him daily.

Thanks again for a great book, looking forward to seeing it in a movie!

R. and M. P.

Dear Joe,

I work at Cedar Springs Christian Store in Knoxville TN in the book
dept. Being a military veteran (Navy) I grabbed a copy of your book as
soon as it came into the store. I could not put it down and I cried all
the way through it. Thank you so much for sharing with us the wonderful
story of your mom and dad. I have lived free for 60 years because of
what your dad and others like him did. As for your mom, what a wonderful
woman. How I would have loved to have met her. You and your sister have
much to be thankful to God for.

Gratefully yours,

E. J. R.

Wow! What a story! Not only (for) the greatness of the people who served and fought for our freedom but the greatness of their commitment…

After spending the afternoon with Daddy at the deployment ceremony for Bravo Company, 133rd Signal Battalion, I sat down with the book and did not move until I was done! And I am so glad I was able to read it that way. I think if I'd have read it a little bit here and a little bit there that I'd have broken the “spell.”

We are so blessed to be the children of that generation, to hear, to see, to share, to remember…

I love to read WWII books and I loved John Wayne's WWII movies! As I looked at the Bravo Company, I was envious. How I wish I could do something — to have been able to serve. It would seem like a way to repay our parents' generation for what they have done.

Yet, we can repay them by treating them with dignity and respect, by caring for them as we can. By writing and singing their stories…

I'd like to know if Joe has the name of the troop ship his dad crossed the Atlantic in or the names of the escort ships and the convoy #. (Or where I could look it up.) Daddy's cutter Ingham escorted convoys across the Northern Atlantic for much of the war. I think the Ingham was escorting into the Mediterranean area about the time of D-Day. But it would still be neat to find out if there was any possibility that the Ingham could have been one of the escort ships. One of the officers serving at the same time Daddy did, Capt. John Waters, wrote a book about convoy duty in the North Atlantic aboard the Ingham. It is called Bloody Winter and covers the winter of 1942-43, which was considered one of the worst times of the war. I know Joe has read a lot and he may already have read about the cutters, but if not I do recommend this book. I was amazed at what the men faced guarding the other ships.

Linda C